How to Deal with Narcissists Husband???
My husband is only worried about himself, he only thinks about himself, sometimes he starts shouting unnecessarily, even when I have no fault, he just needs attention. Sometimes I get very fed up, I think what to do, where should I go. Tina, a resident of Chennai, thinks the same way about her husband.
In fact, her husband has a disease like Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) , which is a kind of mental health condition, this disorder is one of the many types of personality disorder.
What is NPD or Narcissism?
People with NPD give more importance to themselves, they just like their admiration, these people consider themselves to be everything, these are the people who care only about themselves. Imagine if you get married with such a person, then how will you manage them and your relationship.
Symptoms of Narcissistic Person-
From these symptoms, you can understand that your husband is a victim of NPD, but this disease is curable.
A sense of self-importance, thinking more of oneself,
Engage in fantasies of unlimited success, power, talent, beauty, or ideal love,
-Those who need a lot of praise, do not give to others,
-Those who have a sense of authority, force things,
One who is mutually exploitative, takes advantage of others,
-Those who lack empathy, have little compassion for others
-one who is jealous of others or believes that others are jealous of them
There is a lack of self-confidence. They are selfish.
Sometimes they lie too, prefer to defend themselves
How to deal with such husband, what is its solution?
Talking to each other on any problem in married life is the best way. In such a situation, talk to the husband and try to understand his confusion.
Keep yourself calm, balanced and patient, don't react immediately.
Try to understand husband, even if he is wrong but try to understand him at that time, don't blame.
Don't just count their mistakes, use us instead of you, don't hold them accountable.
Talk about their well being, husband should feel that you are talking about his well being,
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