Suffocating in the wall of your in-laws??
The girl told her whole story to the parents. They say son, you have to take care of yourself, what can we do? You are married, you have to live according to your in-laws. I am suffocating in this house, I do not know what to do?
A girl got married with pomp. She became a bride and reached her in-laws' house with dreams along with a bundle of dowry. The time had come to make the world he had built in his thoughts come true. But what did he know that the heat of the reality of life burns everything to ashes. The soft dreams in his heart had dried up before they could be fulfilled.
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She used to get angry every day. He thought maybe it was a matter of few days then everything would be fine. She started trying to live by that hope. She does not understand how to mold herself in the environment of her husband's indifference and in-laws. In his in-laws' house, the father-in-law and in the house the mother-in-law's mother runs.She stays playful and chirpy living in the city, but laughing in the in-laws' house, it is also forbidden to speak loudly. That free-thinking girl who lived in jeans, top, suit, kurti, but was tied in a veil of sari in the village's in-laws' house. He is also forbidden to wear a suit-salwar there. She likes to roam, but after marriage, if she steps out of the house, then only to go to her maternal home.
Even going to his maternal home is rare. She became the mother of a child but she does not know what happens to her husband. Far from making love, her husband could not even become her friend. She tries everyday that the husband talks to her, shares things with her, but the husband does not care about anything about her. He neither sits together nor has many meanings.
His only job is to work only for the family members. Cook for them, look after the house and take care of the child. She is educated and wanted to do something in her life, but in her in-laws' house, it is forbidden for daughters-in-law to work outside. Where father-in-law and brother-in-law are standing, it is forbidden to go there, then it is a far-fetched thing to do a job. She wakes up every morning and after sleeping everyone goes to bed at 12 o'clock in the night and eats after everyone's dinner.
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She says that I do not get enough time to complete my hobbies. I have a joint family but no one sees the child. I have the responsibility of being the daughter-in-law and mother of the house. He is also forbidden to talk to today's thinking girl. His friends left only after marriage. He feels that he is some item lying in the corner of the house, which does not make any sense to anyone. Her condition is like that of a house maid. Now he has no desire or dreams...She says that the husband does not care about me and my child. Sometimes we are not able to talk for three-three, four-four days. If my husband goes out somewhere, he doesn't even call me. I don't know how husband's love is? They do not take me out anywhere, it is a far cry to move around. He says that he does not like all this. He is busy with his family.
It seems they have no responsibility towards me. I have seen after talking but even after 4 years of marriage there has been no improvement in their behavior.
I told my whole story to my parents, they say son, you have to take care of yourself, what can we do? You are married, you have to live according to your in-laws. I don't understand what to do? There is no one to support me. Neither maternal nor in-laws. Everyone is busy in their own world.
I want to go somewhere but what will happen to my child and where will I go? I have no one to support me... I can't even tell about myself to anyone, it would be very bad if they come to know. I suffocate in this house. It seems that I am not living, just time is passing. When I see pictures of other couples laughing and playing, I think when will my such time come...I am just waiting that when the cum will be okay??? Or else life will pass like this. Maybe happiness is not written in my life. I am suffering the sin of some birth...
You must be thinking that where is this good in today's era? Whereas the reality is that this story is true. There are many girls who are forced to live by suffocating their in-laws in villages, towns and cities. They don't know where they will go because they don't have a job. She can't imagine leaving the house because even her maternal aunts have alienated her after marriage. It is a sin for them to even think about divorce because they do not want to raise their voice for themselves...
They just put all their might to save their marriage. It is not easy for her to take off the signs of marriage that she is wearing from her forehead to her toes. She is afraid to be called an abandoned woman. Now you tell me, what should such women do?
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